Friday, 27 February 2015

Skipper’s Retrospective

Sitting at anchor on Petronella in Virgin Gorda, in the BVIs, surrounded by charter boats and people on holiday, it is getting hard to remember just how it felt to be such a long way from land. January is starting to feel like a dream so I thought I would put my side of the voyage down before it faded completely.

Of the four of us I think I enjoyed the passage across the least. The responsibility of making sure that the crew and the boat are safe was a huge weight and stayed with me throughout the voyage. It  started a long time before we set off, in Turkey taking the masts down to check them for any defects, having a lot of work done to upgrade the safety equipment , buying new fire extinguishers, new preventer lines, new life jackets, the list is endless.  But it paid off. We got through the Mediterranean and to Gibraltar without any problems that John could not fix. Then the first taste of the Atlantic. A benign motor and sail to Lanzarote with our lively and fun crew, when the winds blew in our favour and lulled us into thinking it might not be too much of a problem to keep going.

The Atlantic crossing was a bit different. For a start it was the first time any of us had done such a long voyage. The thing I found most difficult was the sheer distance we were away from land. As a skipper the exit strategy, the closest place to take the boat in case of difficulty, is always in your planning and mind and when you are 1000 miles from the nearest land there just is no safe port of shelter. Sure there are boats around but not many. In 12 days we saw no boat, no plane, no evidence that there was anyone else out there. I found it best just not to think!



We were so lucky with the choice of crew. Jen and Marcus were just amazing. They were such fun. They would sit on deck sharing headphones and having a silent disco together, or whooping over the birds and sea creatures we saw, or making clever football puns. In the 29 days we were together no-one ever said a cross word to anyone else. In don’t think anyone even thought one. I would lie in my bunk listening to the noises of cutlery and tins being thrown from side to side as the waves crashed around us, and the howling of the wind in the rigging, thinking I bet it is pretty awful up there on deck, get up to take over from Jen and say as I came up, everything OK?  “Mum it’s just brilliant” she would say and suddenly life looked so much better. And John, voted the most useful thing on the boat, was amazing. If it went wrong he just fixed it. The six years of working on our old boat, putting in new systems and understanding the way things worked, paid off time after time. He got us here safely.


So what did I do? Sailing tactics, route planning, meal planning, much cooking, minimal clothes and bedding washing, general organisation of crew and watches, half the cleaning, producer of prizes for nearest guesses of total miles done, first view of dolphins etc. I wasn’t bored! The days went quickly but the time we were out there seemed endless. Just the four of us in our microcosm, relying on each other and enjoying being with each other.




























And then we arrived in the Caribbean. Amazing how you can just sail across an ocean without
anyone giving you permission or trying to regulate you. That first night we slept so well. Since then, like all our friends, we have been really tired. It’s taken three weeks to get to feel normal again but we have gradually recovered and are now enjoying being on holiday with our younger daughter, Emma. Our thoughts are moving towards spending the hurricane season in Grenada with our friends Jack and Fizzy on Carpe Diem and coming back to the UK to see our family and sleep in a bed for the first time since November last year.

It is not possible to overstate the effects of the comments on the blog and the help and friendship and support we have received from our friends out there. Thanks to all of you who sent us messages of support, laughed with us and commiserated with us when things went pear shaped The highlight of the day was switching on the SAT phone in the morning for the texts from Vera and Jack. Each saw something slightly different in the weather patterns and the knowledge that there was nothing ahead that we couldn’t cope with was a great comfort. And then the morning email from Russ. Never predictable, always amusing with a longer overview and a unique way of describing the weather! Thanks to all three of you. You did a great job guys. And to our families who texted us with news and greetings. It must have been hard for them, knowing we were so far away. And finally to our Shore Support Emma who kept us informed of everything we needed to know, liaised with John’s parents, sent us daily quiz questions to answer and dealt with the numerous problems associated with our house tenants leaving without notice. Thanks so much Em.

So that’s it. Journey over. My main sadness is that Dilek is not here too in her small boat Symina. Thankfully Dilek is OK, back in Turkey now. We had planned to drink a bottle of rum together. Instead we threw some into the sea in memory of Symina.

Gill

Skipper S/Y Petronella

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